Time is big healer
“Don’t go for looks; they can deceive, Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away ,Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.”
How true, if only we could understand it, if only people knew the importance of being genuine and simple, if we had no selfishness and jealousy to curb our smiles then world would have been much more wonderful place to live in.
Be happy if u can, cry if u want to, share the pain if needed, hide the tears if u hate them, but don’t hurt others… not needed. “if u can make someone smile, wonderful,if u cannot then no issues, but u have no right to hurt others” followed it always and will follow it forever.
“jaadon kee narm dhoop aaur aangan mein let kar,
aankhon pe khinch kar tere daaman ke saaye ko,
aaundhe pade rahe kabhee karawat liye huye”
When I look at the sunset I just can feel emptiness, something is over, one day gone into the lanes of history again, one day gone with smiles and tears and shouts and whispers, frown and tears. But can we push back those moments of life which we spent in smiles, the moments which I want to cherish forever in reality, I know it is impossible, but then I still can wish, I want them back, I want those smiles, those people with whom I had so much fun and shared so many emotions.
Sometimes I wonder, where are they, school friends, neighbours , college friends, and people whom I met at some point of time and who made a difference to my life. I know, it just goes on, so does life, no one and nothing waits for anyone, and I learnt the biggest truth of my life, but I paid for this lesson.
Time is always the deciding factor, there is nothing called “I cannot bear, I cannot handle, “situations and experience make you learn everything. To survive you need to learn everything, nothing and no one will be forever, ultimately, its you who matters. Past one year how many changes, and am I a better person today?? And I just felt, yes, because today I am not scared of any relationship and I am not scared of pain and of being hurt, because I trust myself, and more than anything i own my emotions, I would handle them all, wouldn’t need others help now. It took a long time but then I realised it, TIME IS A BIG HEALER. Yes Rao! you said it right.
I have come a long way from the hurt and pain and tears, and from the word called looser to the world of winners, it was a tough journey but I did it again. I don’t want to look back but then I wouldn’t want to forget it too. Let it remain in the folds of memories, which help me to take the next step as a much better person today. AMEN
“Zamane Mein Sabhie Ko,Milte Hain Gham Tum Na Ghabrana,
Yahan Har Raat Ki Subhah Hai Hamdam,Tum Na Ghabrana,
Chura Lo Tum Khushi Ke Pal Muqaddar Ke Khazane Se,
Bhala Kab Door Hote Hain,Yeh Gham Aansoon Bahane Se,
Tumhaare Saath Ho na Ho Yeh Aalam,Tum Na Ghabrana,
Zamane Mein Sabhie Ko Milte Hain Gham Tum Na Ghabrana
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Last 3-4 days were really painful and so I went to watch Davis Cup. Check out new snaps in album ‘Davis Cup’. That was the first day of the tie and it started raining. I went to lounge and couple of minutes later Lee came there. He met me there and asked me ‘kaisa hai re tu’ and all I was thinking how nice one can be.We had some nice talk about family, work and game and he gave me hug before leaving from there. He is real gem. Definitely.
Third day: I was in Player’s lounge and Sania was there with her Dad. I look back at entrance and I saw many people (call them fan or people who are just influenced with media hype) waiting outside for her one glimpse, photograph, autograph but all I was thinking of ‘Sania Mania’ (read my last post on Sania). She did not bothered to wish Lee Dada for his doubles victory.
Whatever the result of the match was I enjoyed change in my routine life. Oh it was so nice meeting legend of tennis ‘Mr. V Amritraj’.
